Losing a child is one of the most profound and agonising experiences a parent can face. I know this all too well, having experienced the unbearable loss of my own daughter who passed away at the tender age of six. My name is Ellery Lont, an energy transformation coach, and I've walked the same dark path you may find yourself on now. My mission is to help grieving parents find light at the end of the tunnel, emerging not just as survivors but as empowered, transformed individuals.
My journey began long after the immediate grief had subsided. Years after my daughter's tragic death, I realised I had been living unconsciously. The weight of my loss grew heavier as I delved deeper into my own sorrow, unknowingly reliving the pain daily. I mistakenly believed I had processed my grief, but life became unbearably heavy. I discovered that I had suppressed much of my pain, masking it with a facade of "having moved on."
When the dam finally broke, my emotional pain surged to the surface. I sought explanations and solutions, but the usual paths weren’t suitable for me. Intrigued by mysticism, I embarked on a spiritual journey that led to my awakening. I immersed myself in trainings focused on awareness and followed masters who pointed me toward transformative wisdom.
Unlike many guides and therapists, I have lived your pain. Losing my daughter shattered my world, but surviving it has granted me unparalleled insight. I’ve been where you are now, and I understand your grief in ways that words alone cannot convey.
Struggle and Resilience:
My path to healing was fraught with failures and setbacks. Conventional methods didn’t resonate with me, and I had to forge a new way forward. This experience instilled in me the resilience and tenacity necessary to not only overcome my pain but to master the transformative power of energy healing.
Having lived through unimaginable loss, I discovered that true understanding of this specific grief can only come from those who have experienced it firsthand. This journey of deep internal work has equipped me with a unique perspective that books and theoretical knowledge simply cannot offer.
Through years of learning, suffering, and eventual awakening, I developed a powerful framework designed to center one's consciousness. My approach facilitates the transformation of pain into power, enabling you to reclaim your life and emerge stronger than before.
The spiritual awakening I experienced allowed me to transform my own energy, dissolving my suffering. This holistic approach brings about a catharsis that reshapes your perception, making life not just bearable but truly magical again. This is not just a temporary fix but a sustained transformation.
My awakening led me to participate in trainings and follow masters in the field of awareness development. While I was still suffering deeply, I began to see my actions and mistakes clearly, understanding that many had been buried in my subconscious. Through this training, I learned that our mind programs and conditions us, trapping us far from our emotional roots. I awakened to this mechanism, and it opened a pathway to unprecedented healing.
In mastering the skill to transform my own energy, I dissolved all my suffering, including the debilitating grief of losing my daughter. My perception of life shifted dramatically. What was once a disturbing factor became an asset as my mind's turbulence gave way to clarity. I saw that many people were still unaware of their potential for such a transformation.
This realisation drove me to become a coach, dedicated to healing others from their pain.
My mission since has been to guide parents through the unbearable experience of losing a child.
Not only can I help you reclaim your life, but you will also emerge better than ever before. The experience of a deep catharsis will transform your pain into power.
The methodology I utilise is rooted in heightened awareness and elevated consciousness.
This approach remains largely untapped by the collective, but from my personal experience, it is an all-encompassing energetic state. This state will open your heart and reconnect you effortlessly with your loved ones. It requires a specific map and scientific techniques, leading you to this profound transformation.
Grief can only truly transform and dissolve through working from an elevated state of consciousness. Awareness is a potential that not many have yet explored, but it holds the key to emotional healing. I live my processed and healed state of being every single day, a testament to the power of this approach.
My role as an energy transformation coach is to share this potential with you.
Imagine a life where the weight of your grief no longer dictates your existence, where your consciousness is centered and your heart is open.
This is not just a dream but a reachable reality through the right guidance and techniques.
There was a time when life had made me an empty shell. The death of my daughter shattered me, and a part of myself was buried with her. I found myself drowning, not just in grief, but in the multiple bad experiences that cascaded one after another. I was no longer present in my own life, merely existing rather than living. I had forgotten the essence of who I was, merely going through the motions, becoming a shadow of my former self.
As I navigated through the emotional debris of my past, I realised that every heavy burden and painful experience was guiding me towards my inner calling. This realisation was transformative. Life’s burdens were not just weights to carry—they were signposts directing me towards a deeper understanding and a more profound level of awareness. I learned that our true self can be accessed through a heightened state of awareness. It is literally a rebirth. The old me, bogged down by sorrow and loss, slowly diminished. In its place, a new version of myself emerged, one filled with compassion and a burning desire to heal.
I have walked the path through darkness and found the light on the other side. I transformed from an empty shell to a beacon of hope. This journey was not easy, but it equipped me with the wisdom and tools necessary to guide others. Many people envision a better version of themselves but remain unaware that this transformation is a natural consequence once you've dissolved and transformed your heavy burdens. It is not an elusive dream but an attainable reality. My experience uniquely positions me to guide others because I’ve lived the transformation that I now teach.
I also struggled with the desire to make my daughter proud as she looked down on me, and for a long time, I felt like I was failing. But today, I feel pride in my journey and know that she is proud too. This profound understanding compelled me to become a coach dedicated to guiding other parents through the pain of losing a child. My mission is to help you reclaim your life, transforming your pain into power through a framework centred on awareness and consciousness.
By embracing this path of healing, you can find solace and strength, not only for yourself but for your entire family. The love that resides in your heart is everlasting, and through transformation, you can honour your lost child by living a life filled with love, connection, and purpose.
When I stand in front of grieving parents, I often see a reflection of my past self—a heartbroken person devoid of light and direction. This tragedy can anchor you in a state of paralysis, where each day feels heavier than the last. If left unaddressed, this grief becomes an all-consuming darkness, slowly extinguishing your vitality.
Imagine your mind as a fortress. When you lose a child, the walls of this fortress crumble, leaving you exposed to waves of unbearable sorrow. Our minds are inherently designed to cling to attachment, not to let go. And so, this lingering sorrow festers. It’s akin to a slow death—each day you feel a bit more drained, a bit more disconnected from life, and a bit more submerged in darkness.
The urgency of taking action cannot be overstated. Without intervention, this emotional weight doesn’t just persist; it grows, infiltrating every aspect of your being. You begin to lose touch with joy and purpose, spiraling further into a realm where sunlight scarcely penetrates. Life then becomes a sequence of efforts to mask, rather than mend, your wounded soul.
For years, I was a prisoner of my own mind, mistakenly believing that I had dealt with my grief. It wasn’t until I faced my suppressed emotions that I began to understand the true magnitude of my pain. This revelation was both a gift and a curse, shaking me to my core but also lighting the path to healing.
Here’s where awareness becomes your beacon of hope. Awareness acts like a spotlight, illuminating the hidden recesses of your shattered heart. It awakens a part of you that remembers how to love, how to feel joy, and how to connect deeply with those around you. This journey towards awareness enables you to tap into your innate power, catalyzing a transformation that feels almost magical.
Just as I found beauty and meaning again through spiritual awakenings and energy transformation, so can you. Once your heart opens, you become truly available—not just physically but emotionally—for your spouse, other children, and even for yourself. You shift from merely surviving to genuinely living. You reconnect with the pure, uplifting love that resides eternally in your heart, transforming it from a source of pain to a wellspring of strength.
Consider, for a moment, how your departed child might feel witnessing your ongoing suffering. Our children look to us for courage and resilience. If they could see, they would plead for you to find peace, to honor their memory not through sorrow but through the vibrancy of a life well-lived. Holding on to grief not only dims your own light but also casts a shadow over their legacy.
If you do nothing, this pain continues to grow, feeding on your life force and spreading into every interaction and relationship. You risk not just your own well-being, but also the emotional health of those who depend on you. However, if you choose to step into awareness, to actively engage in healing, you reclaim control. You can reshape your narrative from one of ongoing loss to one of profound transformation.
Don’t let another second pass in this limbo. Take action now, and allow yourself to heal. Remember, the love that resides in your heart is eternal—connect with it, and let it uplift you. Transform your pain into power and let the memory of your child become a guiding light rather than a source of darkness.